I just love DEA/SWAT/F1/NBA/World Soccer/FBI/CIA/Navy Seals!?

I am a girl and I love these things I still like to go shopping and do girls things! Most of my friends are guys and they wanted to meet my BF so I invited them to my BF birthday party. They are just friends!! But now after I invited them they won't go and stop talking to me! They were not Ex BFs they are like co-workers. What is wrong with them?